The Moment I Realised I Was Done With the Mundane
Nov 24, 2025
I really do feel like there’s a moment in every woman’s life where she looks around and thinks:
"This can’t be it. I’m meant for more than this.”
Not more things.
Not more hustle.
Not more chaos.
More Aliveness.
More Energy.
More Clarity, Purpose, Momentum, and Freedom.
My moment came quietly… and then all at once.
It didn’t look dramatic from the outside.
But on the inside, it felt like my entire life tapped me on the shoulder and whispered:
"Nicole, you’re done living the misaligned, mundane."
The Life That Looked “Fine” But Felt Wrong
From the outside, my life ticked every box.
I’d built businesses, hit success on paper, raised three incredible daughters, kept everything running, kept everyone alive… and smiled while doing it.
But inside?
I was exhausted.
Underwhelmed.
Misaligned.
Running a life on autopilot that didn’t match who I was becoming.
There’s a unique kind of burnout that comes from being a woman who knows she’s capable of more, but is stuck living a version of life that’s too small for her.
That was me.
The Shift I Didn’t Expect
Funny how life delivers wake-up calls in unexpected ways.
For me, it was a mix of:
* Raising teenage daughters
* Running a highly successful (and stressful) business
* Surfing (my joy + sanity)
* And then…a full body burn out...
Suddenly, everything paused.
My body forced me to slow down.
My identity cracked open.
And I began asking the question I had avoided for years:
"What do I want my next chapter to look like?”
Not what I should do.
Not what was expected.
Not what looked good from the outside.
What felt right for the healthiest, happiest, next-level version of me.
The Decision That Changed Everything
It wasn’t a screaming, dramatic decision.
It was quiet.
It was a feeling, then intentional action.
I decided:
I’m done living a life that drains me.
I’m building a life that expands me.
From that moment on, everything changed, not because life magically improved, but because I did.
I started making choices Future Me would be proud of.
I started honouring my energy.
I started prioritising longevity, mindset, rituals, boundaries, clarity.
I started creating momentum instead of waiting for it.
I rebuilt my health.
I rebuilt my confidence.
I rebuilt my identity.
And I rebuilt my entire life around alignment, not obligation.
Became the Woman I Used to Look Up To
Not perfect.
Not superhuman.
Not always put together.
But…
Strong.
Clear.
Energised.
In integrity.
In momentum.
In the driver’s seat of her life.
I became a woman who lives nothing but next level, because I built that identity one 1% shift at a time.
And now?
I teach other women to do the same.
Women who are tired of the mundane.
Women who want more energy, more clarity, more vitality, more confidence.
Women who know their next chapter is calling, and they’re finally ready to answer.
This Is Your Permission Slip
If you’ve been craving a reset…
If you’ve been feeling that whisper…
If you’re exhausted by your own potential going unused…
This is your moment.
You don’t need a full life overhaul.
You don’t need to burn everything down.
You don’t need to wait until you “have time.”
You just need your next 1% shift, and the courage to choose differently.
Your next-level life is waiting for you.
And trust me… it’s better than you can imagine.
Nothing But Next Level. Always.
Become the Woman who actually DOES the thing.
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